Conditional Love and Happiness

She said if only I will meet the right partner then I’ll have my forever.

She stared through the darkness, she waited for the perfect moment.

After five long years

She sits still and wondered

If only the perfect person comes then I’ll be happy.

She died with no forever, no perfect partner and no happiness.

It’s such a shame that we put rules in loving or showing affection to people not necessarily your significant other but people in general.

It’s a great time to reflect on the concept of love today well because we celebrate Valentine’s day, a day to celebrate love.

My facebook and my ig feeds are full of flowers and roses and kisses and cuddling couples.

And I think it’s an amazing feeling to feel love and to be loved. Who doesn’t want it right?

But then we have break ups, divorces, abused women, depressed men etc. just because they are never good enough for the partner or it was not right.

As what Carrie said in one of the Sex and City’s episodes when two people break up where does the love go?

It’s human nature that we have to set standards and rules for our happiness we have that “what ifs” all the time.

What is love anyway? Here’s a great passage that St Paul wrote to the corinthians about love.

and he said:

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its way; it is not irritable or resentful but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believe all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 

So if you feel blue coz you are single today look around your family and friends they show love to you unconditionally, they will never have rules and expectations for you because they truly love you.

Try to open your heart to possibilities there are so many things in the world that we could show love and of course, don’t forget to show it to yourself first.

Love yourself to the fullest and happier you will be.

So pick up yourself honey

Say I love you to your parents and show them how much you love them because they are the living proof of unconditional love.







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